3 Ways To Recognize Imbalanced Inner Power

During last three weeks you had an opportunity to learn the six patterns of imbalanced inner power. How do you feel, recognizing yourself as one of the six heroes? Today you can find even more tips how to spot when you face the imbalanced inner power. Today you will learn the first three.

Imagine that you are in the shop, seeing a wonderful dress.You can have seven various approaches to buying just as simple thing as a dress. See how different strategies you can use and think of their consequences:

1.”I have to get it, right now!”. Of course, using your credit card and without checking the balance since last week. You even don’t know if you have similar clothes, matching the dress and when it will be worn. But you are taking it… and then paying bank surcharges, as your credit limit is overdrawn! And you are still keeping the dress…. working harder to pay off the debt later.

2. Someone else seeing it says: “Well, but it’s too expensive and I don’t need it. I don’t like buying clothes at all. I just went for a walk with her. Sometimes I get new clothes as birthday presents, but I even don’t know when to wear them”. She neither knows why she dislikes buying clothes, nor she has a plan of her wearing style, just using the sets bought 3 years ago or being given as presents.

The third person, just after you, is also swept in and has bought the dress. But then she has checked her balance on the account and… returned the merchandise, just an hour later. But even in this case, she had no purpose - when to wear the dress or what else to buy to look smart in it. Just an impulse.

It might not be even the balance on her account, that was the reason of changing her mind and coming back to the shop. She has not tried out the clothes. Therefore the size turned out to be wrong or her family disapproved it – and she listened to others, instead of  going with her own gut.

You can find similar examples in the field of finding a new job or a partner. In case of kids the issues is much more complicated as you cannot just “return” them to the shop, like clothes. But even breakups are stressful and always involve heartbreaking or other emotional turmoil – as we are dealing with people, not things.

After reading the above three style of behavior during purchasing a dress, what kind of hero would you recognize? Have you ever met anyone matching any of the descriptions? Share your views under today’s post. Visit my Facebook group: The Winner’s Club, where you can discuss the issues published here. Have a nice day.